Life starts with sex and ends with death, and the middle is basically just lots of thoughts about both. These are fundamental aspects of being human, yet serious considerations of either are too often left out of our politics, our revolutions, and even our most passionate efforts to recreate our world.
But Caitlin and I wanted to keep going. So we had this longer and more in-depth discussion, which you can watch below. We talked about how we can use sex and death in our politics and activism, how to conceive of your own death, sexually radical thinkers like sex magician Paschal Beverly Randolph and utopianist Charles Fourier,some guy named Donald Trump, Darwin’s Worms, and more.
My friend Martin Pousson is an amazing writer. Author of, among other things, the profoundly strange and disturbing magical memoir Black Sheep Boy(Rare Bird Books, 2016).
Plus, look at Martin’s arms.
Also, Martin’s an amazing poet, and when he gives readings of fiction, memoir, or poetry, it’s always performative in the best possible way.
When I heard he’d written a, um, rather graphic poem about Donald Trump, how could I resist? I had to have him come over to and read it so we could share it with you. It’s part of my push in 2017 to show all the irreverent ways we can resist, create, and radiate power to one another, which culminates this month in my online course, Radical Undoing: Decolonize Your Mind with Sex, Science, the Occult, and Philosophy, which you should sign up for so we can do this work together.
In this course, we’ll tear down our programming piece by piece by uncovering the oppressive elements in our sexualities, views of science, thoughts on spirituality, and ideas about what’s possible…
…and then we’ll reveal new and better pathways for each; transforming our inner lives; and creating new possibilities for ourselves and, by extension, the world we live in.
Join me in this one-session-only, live, online workshop + Q&A on how to rework your inner life into a more sexual, radical, spiritual, and contemplative position, so you can see, act in, and create change in the world differently.
Together, we will:
Look at the links between sex and power, and how having a better attitude about sex, as well as how you have sex, can affect our culture
Uncover the hidden history of evolutionary biology and show how our current ideas of selfish genes, natural competition, and random genetic mutation are really just capitalist economics in disguise
Examine how radical art, including pornography, can dislodge old, harmful thoughts that are holding us back
Reexamine nature and challenge both the industrial exploitation of nature and shallow environmentalism
Show how indigenous studies and the philosophy of radical anthropology rightly defy current modes of resistance and demand more of us
Find the value of the occult and magick in the context of changing the world and banishing the old institutions of power
Find the radical core of postmodern philosophies and critical theory, and how to make it actionable, dynamic, and alive in your mind and the world
The course will be a fun, accessible, irreverent lecture, followed by a Q&A where we can all engage. And If you can’t attend the day of, or if you want to watch the lecture again, you’ll have exclusive ticket holder access to a recording of the course for 90 days.
On a personal note: this class is going to draw on everything I’ve learned in my 39 years of being, studying science, practicing the occult, being a sex worker, and more. With so many people depressed about the inauguration of a new President, so let’s make ourselves ready for the world. Let’s change ourselves, radically undo our inner oppressive and repressive aspects, decolonize our minds, and then bring all that back to bear on our culture.
Can’t attend the day or time of the event? No problem – every ticket gets you exclusive 90-day access to a recording of the entire session!
Welcome to 2017. You might be nervous, but don’t be: We got this. To kick the year off, my friend Dr. Chris Donaghue and I hung out at my house and talked about how to undo the parts of yourself that are fucking with your ability to experience freedom, to offer compassion, and to take action. Chris calls it “untherapy,” and I call it “undoing.” The video ties in with my upcoming online course, Radical Undoing: Decolonize Your Mind with Sex, Science, the Occult, and Philosophy, which you should sign up for and attend because it will be awesome. Either way, enjoy our discussion, which is wide-ranging and deep but also casual. We touch on Buddhism, the trouble with the Kinsey Scale, Susan Sontag, Ludwig Wittgenstein, reinventing our minds, why resistance is not enough, and more.
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Is this the prelude to a video-based podcast? Maaaaybe. I don’t know. We’ll see. But one thing’s for sure: I’ll be posting a lot more regularly this year, because it’s needed, and I’m really interested in creating a center of gravity for the awesome community that you, dear reader, twitterer, masturbator, spellcaster, are part of. It’s a good year!
Hey hey folks, 2016 turning into 2017. No bang, no whimper, this isn’t the end, a new beginning is waiting for us. Awesome. So let’s finish the year and ring in the new one with some good news!
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Also in the good news camp: I have a new online course in 2017 that you can register for now! Radical Undoing: Decolonize Your Mind with Sex, Science, the Occult, and Philosophy is scheduled for January 22nd. You can think of it as an antidote to the pain of Inauguration weekend; a way to see hope in an otherwise unhopeful moment. More on the course in upcoming blog posts, but for now, you can check it out here!
After the year turns over, check back for my best of 2016, which I always post in 2017, since you never know what amazing things are going to happen in the last few weeks of an amazing year. And yes, I do think it was an amazing year!
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