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When you talk about sex, you’re condemned by pop culture and bureaucracy (this goes on for quite awhile, because there’s example after example): 2:25
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This condemnation is happening for everyone, it just rises to the surface when you enter the public sphere 9:55
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Hypersexualization meets sexphobia to create a frustration culture: 10:30
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Sex shame in the self help section: 13:55
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Your own sexual liberation is a lifelong project 15:45
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The surprising places sex negativity springs up 16:35
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New age fundamentalism masquerading as healthy sexuality 18:20
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Dismantling “balance” and going for excess to be healthy and fully realized: 19:45
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“Balance” is just another name for monogamy: 21:35
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Sex IS the teacher: 23:00
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To learn about sex, seek some discomfort: 28:45
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How monogamous partners often police and trap each other: 30:50
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Wittgenstein explains pornography 33:55
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My favorite adult scene to watch: 38:30
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Why bisexuality does and does not exist: 40:10
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Are new terms for sexual identity politics valuable?: 43:10
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Conner feels fat, and that makes him a top: 47:55
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Individuality vs Individualism: 1:01:10
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CH